Share It, Show It

When looking to expand your repertoire with your lover, sometimes you have to get bold. Part of our human wiring for getting turned on is to be stimulated… visually. Of course you know this instinctively, which is why you coif your hair, redden your lips and checks, and don your sexiest nighty when trying to turn on your lover. Another visual component that will excite your sweetheart is letting him see the most private, delicate parts you can share. Tell him ahead of time that you want to show him all of you as you start your lovemaking session. Set up the room ahead of time with warm, flattering light so you feel comfortable in this revealing act. Flirtatiously strip down to your barest self, then tease off your panties and invite him to take a close look. Touch yourself softly so that you start to get your juices flowing, and as you do your vulva will start to get deeper in color and swell. Ask him if he notices the change and you will love the surprised and hungry look on his face as he tells you how much he loves seeing what you have to offer. You can let this foreplay lead where it will, perhaps you will bring yourself to orgasm while he watches, and maybe he will touch himself and join in that fun, too, or he may not want to wait after seeing you like this and dive right in to the main course.